WHAT REALLY HAPPENED

A Heartbreaking Pause — But Not the End.
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We’re devastated to share this with you — NSFW is officially pausing, indefinitely.
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As many of you know, earlier this year we were forced to pause KRAVE due to serious safety concerns impacting our founder, Ally. THEY WEREN'T PERSONAL, THEY WERE SAFETY ISSUES CAUSED BY COMPETITORS, THIS WAS ALWAYS A BUSINESS MATTER, THIRD PARTY INTERFERENCE. What followed was something no community should ever face.
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Before we even had the chance to speak, a coordinated troll campaign was launched — led by our former Consent Angel Manager WHO ALLY MOVED ON DUE TO HER BULLYING OF ALLY AND CREW, Carly- who used 8 fake Reddit profiles to spread false narratives and ignite backlash. We’ve verified at least 5 through digital evidence, and the rest through witness accounts.
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This wasn’t drama. This was deliberate sabotage. THE PROFILES WERE USED TO MAKE POSTS AND REPLY TO THE SAME POSTS, MAKING IT APPEAR THE WIDER COMMUNITY FELT A CERTAIN THAT WASN'T TRUE, THEY WERE USED TO INFLUENCE PUBLIC OPINION. A FEW REAL ACCOUNTS DID QUESTION THE TROLL ACCOUNTS, THEY ASKED 'WHY THEY FELT SO STRONGLY'. ALL THE NEGATIVE NOISE CAME ONLY FROM CARLY,  THE TROLL POSTS/ COMMENTS WERE BACKED BY THE MODERATORS WHEN A MODERATOR CREATED A COMMUNITY WARNING BECAUSE HE TRUSTED THE CONSENT ANGELS OPINION IN HIS WORDS - HE DISREGARDED US COMPLETELY, AND WITH THAT, THIS NARRATIVE WAS TAKEN TO A NEW LEVEL AND SPREAD A NEGATIVE IMAGE ABOUT US THROUGHOUT THE COMMUNITY. THAT IMAGE DID NOT REFLECT OUR CREDIT POLICY OR REALITY.
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Carly had previously sent threats to Ally — saying she would “destroy her.” She followed through, teaming up with Matt (Between Friends) and Isadora (Purr) to spread lies, distort facts, and encourage refund demands BECAUSE WE HAD RUN AWAY WITH PEOPLES MONEY— despite every ticket being sold under our long-standing credit-first policy for third-party cancellations and safety-related pauses.
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Last year, when Isadora caused issues at our previous venue and we had to issue credits DUE TO A DATE CHANGE, our community stood by us.

But this time, THE SAME SITUTATION BUT A WILDLY DIFFERENT RESPONSE? THE DIFFERENCE WAS THE ONLINE TROLL CAMPAIGN.  That chance TO COMMUNICATE WITH OUR TICKET HOLDERS was stolen from us — by coordinated lies and a manipulated Reddit thread made to look like a mass community backlash. REDDIT BANNED ALLY AND ANY ACCOUNTS THAT TRIED TO REPLY, SHE WAS GAGGED AND SILENCED, SHE LOST HER VOICE. THEY DESTROYED OUR COMMUNITY.
We were silenced.We were misrepresented.And the damage was massive. THEY LATER ALLOWED MATT TO PROVIDE A POST DISCREDITING ALLY, THIS WAS PINNED AS A COMMUNITY WARNING BY A MODERATOR. ALLY TRIED TO CONTACT THEM WITH PROOF MATT HAD BEEN BLACKMAILING AND THREATENING HER ALL WEEK, HE THREATENED TO DESTROY HER ONINE VIA REDDIT, EMAIL AND OTHER CHANNELS IF SHE DID NOT HAND OVER THE BUSINESS, ALLY REFUSED TO GIVE HIM THIS COMMUNITY AND HE FOLLOWED THROUGH WITH THE SUPPORT OF REDDIT MODS.THE MODS IGNORED ALLYS STORY AND SILENCED HER.
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Convent of Sin is now cancelled.Not by choice. Not because of lack of care or planning. But because they destroyed our ability to rebuild the trust, safety, and numbers needed to continue.
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We want to be clear:🛑 This is not a shutdown.🛑 This is not permanent.💔 But it is an indefinite pause.
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NSFW is a full-time operation, not a side project.It’s Ally’s life’s work — and without events, we’ve had no income for months. Despite secured financing, we’ve now run out. Ally is facing the real possibility of losing her home OF SIX YEARS.
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And for those who know her story… SHE OVERCAME AN UPBRINGING FILLED WITH DIVERSITY AND SHE OVERCAME THE ODDS - STATISTICALLY SHE SHOULDN'T OF MADE IT, SHE WENT ON TO HAVE AN AMAZING CAREER AND BUILD THRIVING COMMUNITY BASED BUSINESSES, MORE IMPORTANTLY SHE CREATED A NURTURING AND SAFE SPACE SHE HAS CALLED HOME FOR SIX YEARS. AND BECAUSE OF HER STORY,  you’ll understand just how much this breaks our hearts.
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Still, we’re not giving up.
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We’ve already begun the  processes needed to hold these people accountable. thOSE responsible for the harassment, the trolling, and for driving Ally into a place of deep personal trauma. They coordinated efforts that included recruiting men to intimidate Ally in person 24/7 for months.
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We’ll say it again:This wasn’t just a party. It was a movement.Built by one woman — for femmes and those who needed a space that put their joy, pleasure, and safety first.
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It’s not over. But we need help to get back.
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✨ In the coming days, a GoFundMe will be launched by our business partner and members of the crew — to support the legal fight ahead and help Ally survive during this indefinite pause.
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Your support will help us do three things:

- Seek justice for what’s happened.
- Rebuild a safe space — stronger, smarter, and louder.
- Come back when the time is right, with everything you loved — and more.
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So while we pause, we ask:

✨ Stand with us.
✨ Stand with Ally.
✨ And stand against those who used sabotage, lies, and intimidation to destroy something beautiful.
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With love and fight,The NSFW Team Ally, Maris & Crewxx





🎥 What Really Happened Behind the Pause at KRAVE
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This video walks you through the coordinated troll campaign that led to the KRAVE pause — showing real screenshots and Reddit profiles used to attack our brand and silence our voice. Carly, our former Consent Angel Manager, created and operated at least 5–8 fake Reddit accounts to spread misinformation and manipulate the community narrative.
These accounts replied to each other, faked public backlash, and encouraged people to demand refunds — before we even had a chance to communicate with ticket holders.
This was never organic. It was strategic sabotage — and this video shows you the proof. The other FEMME PART OF THIS TRIO IS CALLED DURING THE VIDEO FOR INTERACTING WITH THESE TROLL POSTS,SHE SHOULD NOT BE ENGAGING IN ANY WAY WITH OUR BRAND EITHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY, SHE WAS ISSUED WITH A LETTER OF CONCERN REGARDING SLANDER AND DEFAMATION, THEREFORE ANY INVOLVEMENT FROM HER IS AT BEST A CONFLICT OF INTEREST AND AT WORST, ANOTHER PART OF HER ONGOING ATTEMPT TO DAMAGE THIS COMMUNITY.
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